Preparing for a disclosure is a long process. Typically, I plan 3 months out for the preparation needed to have the best outcome possible on disclosure day. It is difficult for the partner to think of waiting another three months…
In the midst of recovery and the healing process, if there is any dribbling or staggering of information, more secrets, it can throw your partner right back into her trauma. And this is why a complete therapeutic disclosure is needed….
First, you may have gotten caught/exposed not of your own will, as in most cases. In those moments, our brains get all “mushy” and we’re in fight, flight, or freeze. In other words, the truth may not all be disclosed….
“You become. It takes a long time. That’s why it doesn’t happen often to people who break easily, have sharp edges, or must be carefully kept. Generally, by the time you are real, most of your hair has been loved…
Your journey to healing begins here. For partners who feel lost, alone, confused, and traumatized after betrayal, Becoming: A Guide to Recovery from Sexual Addiction While Helping Your Partner Trust Again offers a path to healing and understanding. This book…
Seek Him first and you shall find all the glorious things He has in store for you. Throughout my experience as a Christian, I have sought to seek him first, be attentive to what he is directing, guiding and wanting…
Today is a new day. You cannot undo what was done yesterday. Today is your golden opportunity to build on trust. Focus your attention to pay attention to promises you have made and commitments. In other words, keep your word….
This is an excerpt from an article by Marshall Segal, for Desiring God in February 2017. “I want to put ten of God’s promises before you. My hope and prayer is that the clarity and power of God’s words will…